When too much is too much, it’s time to declutter
/Wrenda Goodwyn • special to the Fort Myers News-Press & Naples Daily News/USA Today Network
“A house is just a place to keep your stuff while you go out and get more stuff.” ― George Carlin
Have you ever walked into a room and immediately felt stressed, even though you couldn't quite put your finger on why?
As a Southwest Florida interior decorator, I see it all the time. People think they need more space, when often what they really need is less stuff. The good news? You don't need to rent a dumpster or spend an entire weekend purging your home. A few simple steps can make your rooms feel larger, lighter, and more inviting.
A home should support the life you're living today. The goal isn't a perfect home. The goal is a home that feels peaceful, functional, and welcoming. When you remove the excess, the things you truly love finally have a chance to shine. It's about making room for what matters most. Shown: Walls in BM Ocean Spray (2-47-60); ceiling and trim in BM White OC 151. Photo: Benjamin Moore.
And no, we're not starting with the junk drawer.
Start With What's On the Floor
This may sound a little unconventional, but one of my favorite ways to begin decluttering is to simply walk through the house and pick up everything that doesn't belong on the floor.
It’s a fine line. Curating and styling the perfect piece in your home. First rule: only include what you love. Shown: Pottery Barn’s Benchwright buffet with Seadrift finish, woven lighting, framed prints and etched glass. Photo: Pottery Barn.
Shoes. Shopping bags. Laundry baskets. Pet toys. Stacks of magazines. When floors are clear, a room instantly feels larger and more organized. Many people become overwhelmed when they start decluttering because they immediately tackle the hardest areas.
The secret to successful decluttering is avoiding discouragement. If we don't see results quickly, it’s easy to quit before we make any real progress. Starting with the floor creates an immediate sense of accomplishment and encourages you to keep going.
Take a "Before" Photo
Before you begin decluttering, take a photo of each room with your phone.
I know it sounds simple, but it's one of the most effective tricks I know. We become so accustomed to seeing our own homes that we stop noticing what's really there. A photograph creates a little distance and allows us to view the room with fresh eyes. Suddenly you'll notice the pile of mail on the counter, the extra chair that's crowding the room, or the collection of decorative items that has quietly taken over a bookshelf.
Easy Ways to Create More Space
Try these simple strategies:
• Clear countertops as much as possible.
• Remove duplicate items you rarely use.
• Edit bookshelves so decorative objects have room to breathe.
• Use baskets to contain everyday necessities.
• Donate items that haven't been used in the past year.
• Keep only the décor that truly makes you smile.
• Clear flat surfaces of unnecessary collections and paperwork.
• Leave some empty space on shelves and tabletops.
The Emotional Side of Decluttering
Let's talk about the hard part. Most clutter isn't really about stuff. It's about memories, hopes, guilt, and sentiment.
When less is more. West Elm’s woodworking floating shelf. Photo: West Elm.
We keep gifts because we don't want to hurt someone's feelings. We save clothing because we might fit into it again someday. Or maybe we made a mistake and it was just not right. But we hang on to it anyway. We hold onto inherited items because they remind us of someone we loved. We keep hobby supplies because we hope we'll get back to them. Sometimes we hang onto things simply because we've had them for a very long time.
If decluttering were only about getting rid of things, it would be easy. The challenge is that our belongings often represent much more than the objects themselves. They can symbolize relationships, accomplishments, important life chapters, or even the person we hope to become someday. I often hear people say:
• "My grandmother gave me this."
• "I spent good money on it."
• "I might need it someday."
• "I've had it forever."
• “I just can’t say goodbye to it.”
Keep this in mind
A home should support the life you're living today—not become a storage unit for every chapter of your past. The goal isn't a perfect home. The goal is a home that feels peaceful, functional, and welcoming. When you remove the excess, the things you truly love finally have a chance to shine. It's about making room for what matters most.
Wrenda Goodwyn is a Southwest Florida interior decorator, A.S.I.D. associate. As a writer, blogger, stylist and color expert, she has helped homeowners throughout Southwest Florida with timeless ways to create beautiful spaces and to solve decorating problems. Her articles appear the first Saturday of each month. For more information visit spectacularspaces.com. Call 239-850-5800 or e-mail wrenda@spectacularspaces.com. For more decorating tips, articles and photos, visit spectacularspaces.com/blog
